Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Handling Criticism

Imitating Christ's Humility
"If you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any fellowship with the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and purpose. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. " - Phillipians 2:1-4

When being criticised, we should not attempt to immediately defend ourselves, especially in anger and rage. Usually, it is pride, rather than genuine honesty and reflection, that motivates our defensive response. So, it is always wise to allow time for the initial shock and irritation to pass before offering our reply.

The right response (though not easy) is to ask the Holy Spirit to show us if the problem is our fault. Most of us don’t ever like to think that we’re wrong. But sometimes, there’s always a chance that a conflict in our lives may actually be our fault.

Dear Father, thank You for teaching me the patience and humility of Christ. Forgive me of my pride and the countless times disappointing You with my attitude and action towards others. Give me a willing heart to change and be renewed. In Jesus' Name I pray, Amen.